I just experienced my first hater on social media. Not gonna lie, it took me back a bit. But I decided to resolve it in a professional manner and move on. I mean after all, this is just a blog. Right? Max and I discussed it and he reminded me to stay positive, walk him and Sparky daily and reward them with a treat. If you ever have a problem, just look into your dogs eyes…
Do you want to know how I resolved the matter? I reached out and messaged the person directly and asked them why they were leaving negative comments. After a short, pleasant exchange she apologized. Hey I get it, my life on social media looks shiny and bright. Believe me, I have my down days and often wonder if I should keep up this blogging thing. You just don’t see the everyday Tanya. Believe me, it’s not sexy (it involves wearing lots of Spanx). So let’s all give each other a break and be kind!
Now, on with the regular program. Today, I am sharing a few items that I am trying and I am also having some of my blog VIP readers try. While the jury is out, I’m going to go ahead and share them with you. Below the pictures you will find direct links to the items. Also, you can always directly shop what I am posting on my Instagram account by clicking this SHOP MY INSTAGRAM tab that is at the top of this blog. Just click on any picture and the links to each item will appear.
Thank you to everyone who entered the CrateChef gourmet box giveaway. SARAH ADAMS is the lucky winner!
How about that cold weather? Time to bundle up! Have a warm and fuzzy weekend! xoxo- Tanya
P.S. The picture of Max was snapped by Pete. We have no idea what he got in to. Typical! #LifewithMax
shop the post and instagram round-up
Wore this dress (on major SALE) and shoes to a party on Wednesday night. Did you see it on Snapchat? Clutch bag is Charlotte Max. Perfect combo for upcoming holiday parties!
I’m currently trying these OLLY gummi vitamins. They are yummy!
I’m obsessed with these wedge booties that come in three colors and are currently 40% OFF! And always use this product to protect your suede before you wear it!
Have your tried the Rodial beauty brand?
On weekends, you will usually find me in these kicks and jeans.
StriVectin Hair sent me these products to try. I have a blog reader trying them too. Stay tuned…
Need I say more? So sexy! And they come in black velvet as well. I’m going to wear them with jeans too!
This luggage is so lightweight. I love the carry-on tote because it is the perfect size. Roller bag has 4 wheels and they come in several colors.
Have you heard of VenEffect? It’s an awesome anti-aging lip plumper that helps with the lines around your mouth.
I’m sad you had this experience. Glad you decided on a positive route although I” sure that was difficult. A good walk and chat with the dogs never fails to cheer and out silly people into perspective. I love your big and think you’re fantastic. Happy Friday!
OMG should not try to tap on phone from bed. Auto correct!
I’m so sorry you had a hater but I love the way you resolved it! And please know how much my friends and I love your blog! I so appreciate the time and effort you put into your posts. You are our “go-to” for staying on trend!
We all put our Spanx on one leg… scratch that anyway we possibly can!!! With so much negative crap in social media your blog is a nice place to enjoy interesting topics, get advice, be healthier, get smarter! This long time reader says the haters gonna hate- don’t change a thing!
Hahaha! Oh Max! What on earth?!
That Kay Unger dress is sooo pretty!
Recommend the Olly Vibrant Skin gummies too. They have hyaluronic acid, collagen in them. I have to buy them direct online though. Haven’t seen them in stores.
I’ve heard other beauty bloggers mention Rodial stuff, but I have yet to try any.
Tanya, I am so sad this happened! Don’t let this deflate your naturally fun and positive self. Fashion…is it the cure for cancer? No. Will it solve any world problems? No. But fashion, and clothing more generally, does play a significant role in how we feel about ourselves. I am reminded of the awesome non-profit Attitudes and Attire. While they help women with many aspects of getting back into the work force, helping them dress appropriately has a direct correlation to how they feel about themselves, and how they are perceived by their potential employer. I’m also reminded of the fashion ICON Iris Apfel. If you are not familiar, there is a GREAT documentary about her called “Iris”. What I love so much about her is her wacky sense of style, and how she uses fashion as a creative expression. For her, fashion is her art. It’s how she expresses her individuality. That’s so cool! So…..yes, haters gonna hate. don’t let it get you down. As I like to say….get on down the road with your bad ass self. You are doing a great job, having fun, and adding some lightness to otherwise pretty heavy world we are living in!!!!
Tanya, don’t let the turkeys get you down! Your blog makes my morning happier after reading the news I need a cup of happy girl talk and you fit the bill!
Love the carpeting in your closet what is it?
So many things you showed today!
Those shoes are gorgeous
I wish they came in a lower heel
Would you pretty please show some glam shoes that are lower heeled? Really glam I know you can find them 🙂
I’ve had 4 knee surgeries so anything above 2 inches is out
Yes that bums me out I’m 5’4 too
Keep smiling
Kris in Seattle
Good for you for meeting the issue head on a resolving it! Sounds much more civilized than other ways I’ve seen things handled. I like positive and I like shiny!
Keep doing you! You are an inspiration and anyone who knows you knows you are welcoming, warm-hearted, sweet and kind! Only great things to say about you. Proud of ya! xx, Courtney
Stay positive Tanya and keep posting! That’s what we LOVE about you!
Love the dress. So pretty. So feminine. And Max. Ah Max. Along with his undeniable puppy wisdom are his puppy antics. Winning. As for the hater. I love your straight forward approach and willingness to see what was going on in her world, reaching out and resolving the issue. Oh, and about those lower heeled glam shoes, oh yes, please. I think this latest broken leg has put me on the permanent no high heels list. So if you run across some gorgeous flats or lower heels, please share! Hugs always!