Tanya Foster wearing Abbey Glass dress

Tanya Foster wearing Abbey Glass dress

Tanya Foster wearing Abbey Glass dress

Tanya Foster wearing Abbey Glass dress

Tanya Foster wearing Tuckernuck dupioni dress for a wedding

Tanya Foster wearing Tuckernuck dupioni dress for a wedding

Tanya Foster wearing Sue sartor at an outdoor wedding

Believe it or not, fall wedding season is almost upon us. One of the most popular questions I have been getting on Instagram is ‘what should I wear to a fall wedding?’ Ask and you shall receive! I have curated a list of the best fall wedding guest dresses for any upcoming weddings in September, October, or November that will make you look and feel your best. Detailed below are some of my personal favorite dresses, plus I have a variety of dresses in various styles and price points in the boutique at the bottom of the page. You’ll want to be sure and scroll through as there are many gorgeous options I found this year. I’ve also included a guide on how to know what to wear to the wedding you’ve been invited to, so I hope you leave today feeling dressed and ready to attend your next wedding!

What to Wear to a Fall Wedding

Dress Code Guide

So…what exactly do you wear to a fall wedding? Before you start shopping, the first thing to consider is the dress code. Cocktail, black tie, formal, and garden attire can all mean something different, and you also want to consider the venue and time of day. An outdoor afternoon wedding will call for a different look than an evening wedding at a formal venue.

Not sure what the dress code on your invitation actually means? Here’s a quick guide:

Black Tie Wedding Attire: This is your chance to really dress up! Women traditionally wear floor-length gowns or other very formal evening attire. Look for elevated fabrics and details like silk, satin, velvet, chiffon, or embellishments. Keep your accessories elegant as well. A dressier heel, evening bag, and beautiful jewelry will pull everything together. Some options include this two-tone gown, this floral gown, or this chocolate brown belted taffeta gown (also available here).

Black Tie Optional or Formal Wedding Attire: Black tie optional gives you a little more flexibility. A floor-length gown is completely appropriate, but you can also choose an elegant midi or dressy cocktail dress. The key is to make sure the overall look still feels elevated. If the invitation simply says formal attire, I would follow a similar approach. A long dress or dressy midi is a great choice, especially for an evening wedding. When in doubt, I would rather be slightly overdressed than underdressed! I recommend this dupioni midi dress, this embellished midi dress, or this golden satin gown.

Cocktail Wedding Attire: Think chic and dressy, but not quite as formal as black tie. A knee-length or midi dress is always a safe choice, and you can have a little more fun with the color, print, or silhouette. Dressy heels or sandals, a clutch, and statement jewelry will complete the look. This one shoulder bow dress, this draped satin dress, or this dupioni mini dress are both perfect for fall.

Garden or Outdoor Wedding Attire: This is the perfect occasion for a beautiful floral dress! Romantic prints, feminine silhouettes, and softer colors all work well, but you can easily transition the look into fall by choosing deeper colors or a darker floral print. You also want to think practically when choosing your shoes. If the ceremony or reception is on grass, skip the skinny stilettos and opt for a block heel, wedge, or dressy flat instead. Fall temperatures can also change quickly once the sun goes down, so consider bringing a wrap or light layer for an outdoor evening wedding. This floral satin dress, this cotton pinstripe maxi dress or this orange blossom dress are great options.

Semi-Formal Wedding Attire: These weddings tend to be a little more relaxed, but remember that you are still going to a wedding! A midi dress, knee-length dress, or elevated maxi dress is a great choice. You don’t need the same formal fabrics or accessories that you would wear to a black tie event. Instead, look for a pretty print, flattering silhouette, or solid-colored dress that you can dress up with heels and accessories. This is also a great dress code if you want to invest in something you’ll be able to wear again. Dresses like this satin halter midi dress or this jacquard midi dress work well.

As you can tell, there is a lot of crossover between wedding dress codes. It also helps to know the couple and what their wedding-vibe is. I love a dress that can work for multiple occasions. For instance, this puff-sleeve mini dress is a great option for a cocktail, semi-formal, or even some formal weddings.

Fall Color Guide

The venue, dress code, and style of the dress matter just as much as the color. Fall is also the perfect time to embrace richer colors and fabrics. Think burgundy, chocolate brown, forest green, navy, plum, rust, and other jewel tones. Fall florals are another great option, especially for an outdoor or garden wedding. And yes, you can absolutely wear black to a fall wedding! Just add elevated accessories to make the overall look feel festive and wedding-appropriate. And don’t feel like you have to avoid brighter colors altogether! Just be sure to avoid white, ivory, or anything that could read as bridal unless the couple specifically requests it.

Where to Shop

A shop you need to check out for unique, high-quality wedding guest dresses is Abbey Glass. She has a store in Highland Park, so if you are in the area you definitely want to check it out. Another go-to designer for me is Sue Sartor. I have worn two of her dresses to two different weddings this summer. I also have great luck finding dresses at Tuckernuck. Then of course Nordstrom is an easy place to find a variety of styles.

If you’re someone who needs a dress but not interested in purchasing right now, then I recommend Rent the Runway for your next event. They offer one-time rentals on a huge assortment of wedding guest dresses. It is especially useful if the event has a specific theme, which is becoming more and more popular. Sometimes you just don’t want to buy a dress for a one-time wear. But for classic dresses, I always recommend purchasing.

My Fall Dress Picks

Keep in mind that what you wear to a September wedding can vary greatly from what you wear in November. Early fall can still bring warm, summer-like days, while November typically calls for richer tones, heavier fabrics, and longer sleeves. Of course, if the event is indoors, you have more flexibility regardless of the weather!

One of my top picks for fall wedding guest dresses is this strapless orange blossom dress (size S). I cannot say enough great things about this dress! The gorgeous organza fabric, the classic tea length style, and the pleated bodice give you an effortless elegance. Although the color is brighter for fall, the orange definitely works and is seasonally appropriate. If you’re someone that prefers sleeves, then you’re in luck! It also comes in this short sleeve A-line option.

Another dress that is perfect for a formal or outdoor wedding is this pinstripe dress (size S). The tie neck detail is so chic and can be worn multiple ways. Plus, I love the tie waist detail to break up the stripes and great a flattering line.

I also loved wearing this dupioni midi dress (size 4) to Laura’s wedding this summer. It is incredibly flattering, and I love the simple pocket details that really add the awe-factor. I own it in both pistachio and black because it is so good. They just released it in two fall tones, berry and evergreen, which are both perfect for fall.

Some other dresses that I do not own (yet) but am loving this season includes this embellished midi dress, this plum draped satin dress, and this silk midi dress. For a fall floral style, I love this bloom maxi dress, this floral print gown, and this silk floral dress. There are too many gorgeous options to list here, so be sure and scroll through below for all of my picks.

Don’t forget about wedding shoes! These strappy metallic heels have been a go-to for me. They’re an elevated style for all event dress codes and they’re under $100! These suede strappy heels are another gorgeous neutral shoe that you can wear again and again.

Below are even more fabulous fall wedding guest dresses. Which ones are your favorites?

xoxo – Tanya

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The best fall wedding guest dresses. Tanya Foster wearing Tuckernuck dupioni dress for a wedding

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